Couples therapy · Robert Jacobsens Vej 44T, Copenhagen & online

We become who we are in the conversations we dare to have

A calm place to land when something in your relationship needs attention. We go beneath the surface and work concretely — so you leave the very first session with something you can actually use.

“A good relationship isn’t about being perfect together — it’s about daring to examine the life you share.”

Most of the couples I meet aren’t in crisis on paper. They have simply started passing each other in everyday life, got stuck in the same arguments, or lost the feeling of being a team. That is exactly where we begin.

I also work in particular with expat couples: couples living in a country other than their own, or who have just moved back home. I lived abroad for three and a half years myself and have worked with couples therapy for expats in Portugal — so I know the longing, the upheaval and the quiet pressure that can settle into a relationship when life relocates.

My approach

Two solid legs to stand on

The philosophical foundation

My background as an MA in philosophy means I don’t shy away from the big questions a relationship raises — about freedom, loyalty and what a meaningful life together really is. We talk about what lies beneath the conflict.

The practical tools

I am trained through the Gottman Institute and a certified couples therapist via PESI’s Couple Therapy Certification. That gives you research-based methods for communication, conflict and everyday friendship.

How we can work together

Different formats — the same presence

Couples therapy

For the two of you who want to understand the patterns, find the tone again and learn to talk about the hard things without it ending in silence or storm.

90 min · for couples

Urgent session

When something has happened — infidelity, a major disagreement, a decision pressing in — and you need to sit down together quickly.

120 min · single session

Individual session

For you standing alone in a relational knot, needing to think out loud with someone who knows relationship dynamics from the inside.

60 min · individual

Ready for the first conversation?

Write a few lines about where you are right now — I’ll get back to you within two working days with suggestions for time and place.